Ya’ll are soft in the head

Lead with your face means exactly that

Why are you all such idgits?

The answer will always be no, especially if you pull the ‘we’ve met before’ shit. At least this guy sent his face before that line.

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Pro-tip: Read the Profile

Hear me out here.

Maybe-just maybe-when the guy’s profile says don’t send him ass pics, and you send him ass pics, and he calls you out for it… maybe *you’re* the app-hole in that situation.

Boundaries matter. I respect Read more

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Safe Sex

2020

Covid-19

What might your covid-safety practices tell me about your general health practices; particularly with regard to STIs?

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Are you tho?

“Dominant tops” that are apparently too scared to put a face pic up on their profile

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Some of y’all…

…change your Grindr profile more than you do your underwear.

And. It. Shows.

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COVID-19 UPDATE

Due to the unprecedented (and this time this word actually means what it means) pandemic around the globe, and to ensure the safety of our staff, all in-person shenanigans are postponed until further notice.

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Blocking Etiquette

I don’t mind it when I get blocked. Free up some grid space by getting rid of the guys you know aren’t a match. Totally get it.

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Introduce Yourself

Throwing your ass in my face is going to go as well for you online as it would if you walked up to me in a public space, like a bar, and did it there.

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